Note to my family: for the future, if it’s the anniversary of my grandmother’s death and we’re going to go to her grave with my widowed grandpa, make sure to arrange it around my vacation itinerary, otherwise I will apparently say something like…
“Maybe it’s selfish, but I only have 14 days and I don’t really want to spend 1 of them being sad.”
Maybe? 
I didn’t mean it like that, Grandma!
-brendan
